We all know by now that I am no longer in the running for "Optimist of the Year Award", but it takes a certain brand of realist to appreciate life as I do. At least I'd like to think so. As a rule, I try to stay away from people who like to appear perfect or illustrate their lives to be such. That is not to say that we should be constantly bringing each other down or constantly needing therapeutic conversations but come on people let's "get real". I love the reality, substance and authenticity of peoples' lives. I like to joy in your successes and mourn and grieve with your failures or sadness. And then we get up and go again....like we should. Obviously, I feel very sentimental and thoughtful right now No, I don't love every second of life as I should but it is a journey. Sometimes it is a difficult journey. As a good friend and rapper would quote, "Life ain't a track meet, it's a marathon".
I just finished a war romance novel that I thought was really good. It is called A Town Like Alice, (don't you love my old school punctuation, books underline, articles in quotations...blah, blah). The storyline follows a girl who gets stuck in Asia during WWII and had to walk over 1200 miles in a "death march", with a camp of women and children....it is a lot more than that, but I hope not to spoil any part, in case you should like to read it. In some parts, the descriptions can get a little monotonous but overall it keeps your attention fairly well and has an interesting story line.
However, I loved the main character and mainly I loved her persevering and positive attitude. I felt that after finishing the book that I definitely could try to wake up every day and try a little harder, "be a little better" as President Hinckley would say. Mainly meaning, I should try and look "on the bright side", "eat my eggs sunny side up", "look through rose-colored classes" or whatever way you look at your glass of life.
With that in mind, here's to a New Year! I LOVE even numbered years....aside from the fact that I got married in 2005 and my son was born in 2009. I also generally feel that even numbered years just are good years overall for me, I know it is ALL in my head. I'm just saying I'm excited for what is to come. I haven't made New Years Resolutions but plan to soon...(not procrastinating is one of them...sheepish chuckle). So here's to 2012 and staying in contact with all our wonderful friends! (consider this your Christmas Card, as that was one New Year's Resolution that I failed at last year, boo, I know.)
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4 comments:
I love this post. Thank you for it. And you are right. Life ain't a track meet. It's a marathon. And not every mile is enjoyable but there are some incredible views!
Yes! This is so good and you are so awesome. I'm so glad we were potluck roommates all those many years ago. You are a wonderful friend and an incredible mom, wife and woman and I am privileged to have you as my friend. This resolution is awesome - I would like to join you in it if that's okay. And I agree with you on the whole even-numbered years thing. And I need to read this book. And remember...don't "pee in your Cheerios!!!"
Love it! We all need a minute to vent. No we are not a sad burnt out folk for venting. In fact I read an article that said those that vent and move on are better off than those that bottle it up. So there is your backing for being a realist!
Love your post and your outlook, Jenny! Sure miss ya!
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